Separated couples will often become immovable on key principles and issues. Shared values which you had together are now no longer held. Each of you has to rediscover and rebuild your life. This along with any complicating factors, will mean you feel you don’t know each other and don’t want to talk to each other.
Each of you may have the support of close friends or family and dig yourself into a position. It is common to feel that you need a lawyer on your side to deal with the ex. Lawyers are not counsellors, friends or mediators they provide legal advice and representation which is a high value service.
Mediation can help you tell the other person what you want to say to them. You can then attempt to talk about the practicalities of moving on without having to fund lawyers to do this for you at £200 per hour or £30 for every email.
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